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Just Breathe Community

Do you have a child who has recently come out as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or any other beautiful sexual orientation or gender identity?

Do you have a million questions?

Do you have worries or fears that you want to talk about with people who understand?

Do you want to be the best support system for your child?

Do you want the best support system for you?

You Are Not Alone!

Now is the time to ask every question, process every fear, and identify exactly what’s standing in your way to being the parent and ally you want to be!

A beautiful future is waiting for YOU and YOUR CHILD!

What if I told you there is a place where you can talk with other parents and allies who are on a journey similar to yours - a place where you can learn and grow without judgment - a place where you can process your fears and we can identify EXACTLY what’s standing in the way of you being the PARENT and ALLY you WISH to be?

There is!

Introducing the

Just Breathe Community!

Not quite sure? Watch the video below and see if this is for YOU!

Welcome to a place that invites curiosity...

  • Identify emotions that are keeping you stuck

  • Ask every question that is on your heart

  • Feel calmer about your child's journey

  • Embrace more peace around your child's future...and your own!

  • Meet and talk with other parents who truly understand your journey

  • Learn, grow, transform, evolve!

Meet Your Guide

I'm Heather Hester, Coming Out Coach, speaker, and LGBTQIA+ advocate. Working with parents and allies is the original reason I started this work and is still my favorite part!

When Connor came out as gay in February 2017, my husband and I felt so lost, so worried, and so uncertain where to find information and support. The countless hours of searching and running into dead-ends, all while trying to support a kid who was struggling in so many ways that we just couldn't learn about fast enough inspired me to create all that Chrysalis Mama is today.

You are not alone on this journey which is why offering this community is so important to me! Show up exactly as you are, there is no judgment here and there are no dumb questions. I am so excited to meet you!

Just Breathe Community

Founding Membership


$47 per month

3-month minimum commitment

The Founding Membership is only available for a limited time! Once those 50 spots fill, the monthly investment will rise to $92/month.

Information, connection, tools, strategies...peace of mind

all for $1.57/day

This is your child, your family, your future!

I can't wait to get to know you inside the Just Breathe Community!

What's Included?

  • Weekly Live Group Support calls with me (and monthly special guest, my husband, Steve!) VALUE: $1200/mo

    • Alternating Tuesdays at 7:00 pm CST

    • Alternating Thursdays at 11:00 am CST

  • Lifetime access to my digital course - Learning to Just Breathe (VALUE: $497)

    • consume at your own pace!

    • bring your questions to the weekly support calls

  • PRIVATE VIP Facebook group - for members only - to connect with one another (VALUE: Priceless)

  • Many more surprises on the way!


This is a FOUNDERS ONLY Rate!

Once the 50 Founding spots are filled, the monthly rate increases!

Join now and keep this rate for life!

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Why isn't this free?

    There are a lot of moving pieces behind the scenes to create and maintain a community like Just Breathe, and all of them cost money. Besides, when something is free, we as humans just don't value it as highly, and a small investment every month will help keep you engaged, attentive, and committed.

  • Why is there a 3-month minimum?

    This community is an investment into yourself and your most precious relationships, and that takes time. The 3-month commitment ensures you get the most valuable experience, undergo our process, and have enough time to decide whether Just Breathe is something that will continue to benefit you long-term.

  • How is this different than one of the many Facebook Groups out there?

    First of all, it is a much safer space, free from trolls and other ill-behaving humans. Second, there is SO MUCH MORE empowering and educational content available to you. Third, you have the benefit of my experiences, not only within my family, but also now working in this space since 2018.

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